Judith Allen Heard commonly known as Judith Heard is a Ugandan Fashion model and host. She
believes that owounds only deepen, they never heal. As most people believe that emotional pain is relieved as time passes, Judith Heard disagrees with this.
Today’s afternoon, she took it on her Facebook page expressing how fresh the wounds of losing her dad are. She believes that in time, the mind, protects its sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. She says the pain never goes because every time you think about it it must hurt.
She unfortunately never got a chance to bury her father and every time she thinks about it, it
breaks her. She also revealed that she only tries to stay strong for her kids, family and funs.
“It has been said ‘time heals all wounds’ I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protects its sanity, cover them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. But it is never gone. Lost my father during the war and I never got the chance of burying him. Till this day am mentally disturbed but I try to keep myself together for my kids, my family, and my funs. Send prayers to my family and friends in Rwanda during this month of kwibuka27” Judith Heard posted.
So many people came up in this post saying that other wounds can heal but no one heals from losing someone they love. A one Ashanah Annan said that for the first time she has gotten someone who agrees with me that wounds never heal but they deepen every time you think about it. She also lost her dad four years ago but the pain is still fresh.
Many people responded emotionally, all pouring out their pain that they never explain to anyone else. It has been an emotional moment.